ارتباط کمالگرایی عاشقانه زوجین با کیفیت زندگی زناشویی زنان : نقش تعدیلگری خود شفقت ورزی

نویسندگان
معصومه برزگری
سیمین حسینیان
عباس عبداللهی
دانشگاه الزهرا(س)
چکیده
پژوهش حاضر با هدف تعیین نقش تعدیل‌گری خودشفقت‌ورزی در رابطۀ بین کمال‌گرایی عاشقانۀ زوجین (خودمحور و دیگر محور) و کیفیت زندگی زناشویی در زنان انجام شد. روش پژوهش این مطالعه از نوع توصیفی-همبستگی بود. جامعۀ آماری شامل زنان متاهل شهرستان تبریز در سال 1402 بود که ابتدا از مناطق 10گانۀ شهر تبریز 4 منطقه به‌صورت تصادفی انتخاب و به‌طور تصادفی 4 پارک، فرهنگسرا، سرای محله و باشگاه ورزشی انتخاب شدند. سپس از میان زنان مراجعه‌کننده به این اماکن 321 نفر به روش نمونه‌گیری دردسترس پرسشنامه‌های خودشفقت‌ورزی ریس و همکاران (2011)، کمال‌گرایی عاشقانۀ (خودمحور و دیگرمحور) عبداللهی و آلن (2022) و کیفیت زندگی زناشویی باسبی و همکاران (1995) را تکمیل کردند.نتایج نشان داد خودشفقت‌ورزی و کمال‌گرایی عاشقانۀ خودمحور با کیفیت زندگی زناشویی رابطۀ مثبت معنادار دارند و کمال‌گرایی عاشقانۀ دیگر محور با کیفیت زندگی زناشویی رابطۀ منفی معناداری دارد. همچنین نتایج نشان دادخودشفقت‌ورزی بین کمال‌گرایی عاشقانۀ خودمحور با کیفیت زندگی زناشویی نقش تعدیل‌گری ایفا می‌کند، اما در رابطه بین کمال‌گرایی عاشقانه دیگر محور با کیفیت زندگی زناشویی نقش تعدیل‌گری ندارد. با توجه به این یافته‌ها خودشفقت‌ورزی به‌عنوان یک ویژگی روانشناختی نقش موثری در کاهش اثرات منفی کمال‌گرایی در روایط زناشویی دارد. بنابراین آموزش مهارت خودشفقت‌ورزی در مشاوره‌های پیش از ازدواج و پس از ازدواج چه در پیشگیری از افت کیفیت زندگی زناشویی و چه در افزایش آن، موثر است.
کلیدواژه‌ها
خودشفقت‌ورزی
کمال‌گرایی عاشقانۀ زوجین
کیفیت زندگی زناشویی
زنان متاهل

عنوان مقاله English

The relationship between couples' romantic perfectionism and women's quality of married life: the moderating role of self-compassion

نویسندگان English

masoome barzegari
simin hooseinian
Abbas Abdollahi
Alzahra University
چکیده English

The purpose of the present study was to determine the moderating role of self-compassion in relation between couple’s romantic perfectionism (self-centered and other-centered) with quality of marital life in the women. This study was of a descriptive-correlation type and the statistical population included married women of Tabriz city. 321 samples were selected using a convenience sampling method and the link of the questionnaires was provided to them. The tools of this research included: Rees et al.'s self-compassion scale (2011), Abdollahi and Allen's (2022) romantic perfectionism scale (self-centered and other-centered), and Busby et al.'s (1995) marital quality measurement scale. . After entering the data into the computer, the data were analyzed using SPSS26 and PLS3 software using the structural equation modeling method. The results showed that self-compassion has a significant relationship with the quality of married life (P<0.001,β=0.384),on the other hand self-centered romantic perfectionism has a significant relationship with the quality of married life (P<0.001,β=0.361),also other-centered romantic perfectionism has a significant relationship with the quality of married life (P<0.001,β=-0.713). Self-compassion played a moderating role between self-oriented perfectionism and marital life quality, but it did not play a moderating role in relation to other-oriented perfectionism and marital life. According to these findings, the importance of getting to know the dimensions of romantic perfectionism and teaching the skills of self-compassion in pre-marriage and post-marriage counseling, both in preventing the decrease in the quality of marital life and in increasing the quality of marital life, doubles.

کلیدواژه‌ها English

Couple’s romantic perfectionism
Quality of Marital Life
Self-Compassion
Women
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