نقش میانجی احساس شرم و گناه در رابطه سبک‌های دلبستگی با پرخاشگری ارتباطی پنهان زناشویی

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1 دانشگاه بیرجند
2 دانشگاه خوارزمی
چکیده
پژوهش حاضر با هدف بررسی نقش میانجی احساس شرم و گناه در رابطه بین سبکهای دلبستگی و پرخاشگری پنهان زناشویی، انجام گرفته است. مطالعه­ی حاضر یک تحقیق همبستگی از نوع مدل یابی معادلات ساختاری است. جامعه آماری این پژوهش را زوجین متأهل شهر بیرجند تشکیل دادند. حجم نمونه پژوهش حاضر را 320 زوج تشکیل دادند. روش نمونه‌گیری از نوع در دسترس بود. به منظور تجزیه و تحلیل روشهای آماری از همبستگی پیرسون و مدل معادلات ساختاری استفاده شد. یافته­‌های پژوهش نشان داد که بین متغیرهای پژوهش رابطه معناداری وجود دارد. بررسی مدل مفهومی پژوهش نشان داد که احساس شرم و گناه در رابطه سبک دلبستگی اضطرابی و سازه های پرخاشگری پنهان (کناره گیری عاطفی و خراب کردن وجهه اجتماعی) نقش میانجی معناداری داشت. بهطورکلی نتایج نشان داد سبک دلبستگی اضطرابی بر احساس شرم و گناه تأثیر بیشتری دارد. همچنین نتایج بیانگر نقش مؤثر سبکهای دلبستگی ایمن، اضطرابی و اجتنابی بر کناره گیری عاطفی بود. احساس شرم با هر دو سازه پرخاشگری پنهان ارتباط مثبت معناداری داشت و احساس گناه فقط با خراب کردن وجهه اجتماعی رابطه معناداری داشت. نتایج بررسی نقش میانجی نیز حاکی از نقش معنادار احساس شرم و گناه در رابطه سبک دلبستگی اضطرابی و سازه‌های پرخاشگری پنهان (کناره‌گیری عاطفی و خراب‌کردن وجهه اجتماعی) بود.
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عنوان مقاله English

The Mediating Role of Feelings of Shame and Guilt in the Relationship between Attachment Styles and Covert Relational Aggression in Marriage

نویسندگان English

Samaneh Khazaei 1
Shokouh Navabinejad 2
Valiollah Farzad 2
Kianoosh Zahrakar 2
1 University
2 University
چکیده English

This study has been aimed to investigate the mediating role of feelings of shame and guilt in the relationship of the attachment styles and covert relational aggression (CRA) in marriage. The present study is a correlational study as a type of structural equation modeling (SEM). The statistical population consisted of 320 married couples collected by convenience sampling in Birjand Collected data were analyzed by Pearson correlation coefficient and SEM methods. The results of the research showed that there is a significant relationship between research variables. Testing the conceptual model showed that feelings of shame and guilt had a significant mediating role in the relationship between anxiety attachment style and CRA (love withdrawal and social sabotage). According to the results, anxious attachment style has more effect on feelings of shame and guilt. The results indicated the effective role of secure attachment styles, anxiety and avoidance on love withdrawal. Feelings of shame had a significant positive relationship with both CRA and feelings of guilt had a significant relationship only with social sabotage. The results of the mediator role also showed a significant role of shame and guilt in the relationship between anxiety attachment style and CRA (love withdrawal and social sabotage).

کلیدواژه‌ها English

feelings of shame and guilt
Attachment styles
Covert Relational Aggression
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